Find Your Type of Man

We all have a type of guy that turns us on -- really turns us on. Then again, we’re probably attracted to various types of guys depending upon our mood and how the planets are aligned. Sure, we may fantasize about the bad boy and riding off on the back of his motorcycle, but should we be searching out the executive instead when it comes to dating?

The Bad Boy

What Makes Him So Appealing?
He definitely grabs our attention. Why do we want him so badly, yet at the same time treat him like the forbidden fruit? He is all man and, though he may have more tattoos than The Metropolitan has art, that doesn’t mean he’s hands off. This guy can be lots of fun, but you might want to think twice before bringing him home to meet mom and dad just yet. Dash off on his motorcycle or shoot pool in his favorite bar. Go along for the ride, but be sure to wear a helmet because bumpy roads could lie ahead.

Warning Signs He Might Not Be Right for You
- He has too many tattoos with female names
- His wardrobe consists of a Hells Angels vest and bandannas

The Executive

What Makes Him So Appealing?
This guy is not the daddy-type per se, but it certainly feels good to know your man has a decent-paying job. What girl doesn’t want to be taken on exotic vacations or pampered a bit? Just remember he’ll be as busy with his love life as with his career. At first, you’ll be his No. 1 affection, but you’ll soon have to compete with his hectic schedule. He is successful for a reason and he’ll be as determined with you, but every once in a while you may have to remind him where you rank on his balance sheet.

Warning Signs He Might Not Be Right for You
- His cell phone goes off every five minutes
- His secretary schedules your dates

The Jock

What Makes Him So Appealing?
Batter up! This guy is serious about sports whether he is playing or watching from the sidelines. He may speak a language that may be foreign to you at first, but you’ll be a quick study. The important thing is to look for a jock who’s physically active -- couch potatoes beware! Sure, he might run off to the ballpark, but you’ll probably enjoy a nice jog together during those quieter times. And if you hate baseball, you can still make it a good time watching the players in those ohh-so-tight uniforms.

Warning Signs He Might Not Be Right for You
- His idea of sports is watching from a recliner at home
- Eating out for him is a hot dog and a beer

The Intellectual

What Makes Him So Appealing?
A brain can be hot with or without glasses. A learned man can expose you to things that most other guys can’t. Imagine dates that involve vineyards or lazy Sunday afternoons reading the newspaper together. He might not know, or care about, the latest sports score, but he certainly knows how to make you feel important. Take notes and be sure to sit at the front of the class. So when the grades come out, you definitely will not flunk out with this guy.

Warning Signs He Might Not Be Right for You
- His favorite cable channels are Cartoon Network & Fox News
- He has a subscription to The Economist -- way too deep

The Intellectual

What Makes Him So Appealing?
A brain can be hot with or without glasses. A learned man can expose you to things that most other guys can’t. Imagine dates that involve vineyards or lazy Sunday afternoons reading the newspaper together. He might not know, or care about, the latest sports score, but he certainly knows how to make you feel important. Take notes and be sure to sit at the front of the class. So when the grades come out, you definitely will not flunk out with this guy.

Warning Signs He Might Not Be Right for You
- His favorite cable channels are Cartoon Network & Fox News
- He has a subscription to The Economist -- way too deep

The Family Man

What Makes Him So Appealing?
This guy may come with a child from a previous marriage, but he offers a quality not easily found -- stability. Sure he has been through the whole love cycle and is starting back at square one, but this is where you step in as a seasoned dater. Give him time and he’ll pick up the pace. Fear not though, he’s not going to repeat what broke up his previous marriage. Now that you're an important part of his life, he'll work hard to create balance, because he'll want to make sure the kids are happy too.

Warning Signs He Might Not Be Right for You
- His alimony checks keep bouncing
- He sees his kid(s) once every six months even though they live with him

The Rock Climber

What Makes Him So Appealing?
Granola isn’t just for breakfast anymore. This guy is completely in tune with nature which gives him a healthy balance with life. He may love sleeping under the stars, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be on a warm beach somewhere in the Caribbean. On top of being healthy, this guy might even be packing a hard lean body beneath all those biner clips. This guy is outdoor adventure so expect the occasional spider and snake, and more so, how to use a baseball cap as a fashion accessory.

Warning Signs He Might Not Be Right for You
- His idea of fun is hiking up an active volcano
- Best Western is a foreign word to him

The Guy Next Door

What Makes Him So Appealing?
We’ve loved this guy ever since high school. Sure he wasn’t class president, but he wasn’t the class jokester either. All grown up now, this guy has everything going for him. He’s out on his own and, like you, trying to make the most out of the dating scene and his career. He might not spend Ksh500 on a bottle of wine, but he'll keep you interested while on a date. Enjoy him, but take it easy since this one can easily be startled with words like “marriage” and “kids.”

Warning Signs He Might Not Be Right for You
- ESPN Zone is his favorite date place
- His best friends are guys from his college fraternity