Gaining confidence. This is how

9 Red Hot Tips - How to Gain Greater Confidence
1. Focus on what you love. If you really enjoy something you will have the persistence and patients to work at it. Confidence often comes with experience and practice.
2. Take it step by step. Do the groundwork required rather then thinking you have to have everything immediately. This will give you more experience to handle your successes and challenges. It will also increase your appreciation for your achievements. Each step you complete will give you more clarity and ideas on how you can move closer to your goal.
3. Learn from everything that happens. Even if the experience is challenging there will be a hidden blessing in it. If you make a habit of looking for the benefit in each situation it will help you to move forward. If you view every experience as an opportunity to learn, then whatever happens is to your advantage.
4. Take the pressure off yourself. You do not have to get everything right the first time. You can always improve over time. Develop an attitude that everything happens in the perfect time, in the perfect way, with the perfect results. Then you can do what you do best, without too much unnecessary stress.
5. . Believing in yourself starts by you saying, "I am worthy of experiencing good things in my life." If you want to do something, be willing to invest the time, money and resources required for your success.
6. Release your doubt. Everybody has doubts at some time in their lives. Rather then putting all your energy into doubts and thinking why something will not work, place your energy on how it can work. Then if doubt comes up doubt it. This will allow your imagination to take flight.
7. There are no failures just feedback. If you do something which does not work, it does not mean that you have failed. All it means is that, it was not the way to create what you wanted at the time and you have an opportunity to try something else. Make new choices and you will get a different result.
8. Use affirmations and focus your attention in a positive way. If you recognize that you already have confidence in certain areas of your life you can easily build on your feelings of confidence by using affirmations and positive statements. It can even be as simple as; "My confidence is improving everyday."
9. Act as if you already are the person you want to be. Imagine what a confident person would be like. How would they carry themselves, walk, talk, make decisions? Then imagine that you are that confident person, act like it and see what happens. You may be surprised.